Penny Jade

  • Avoiding Scams Online and Why I ONLY Use Adult Platforms.

    Let’s Talk About Scammers (And How to Keep Yourself Safe) There’s a guy in my TikTok comments right now who’s furious. He’s been scammed. Misled. He insists that he and I have been texting and that he paid for a meet-up, to which I never showed. But here’s the thing – I don’t offer meet-ups,…

  • Is Being a Cuck Inherently Humiliating?

    Exploring the Many Flavors of Cuckolding When people hear the word cuck, they almost always picture the same thing: a man watching helplessly while someone else ravishes his wife. They imagine shame, degradation, and a sense of failure. They toss the word cuck around as an insult, a punchline, a shorthand for being emasculated. But…

  • Kinky Red Flags: Why Saying You’re “Into Everything” and Have “No Limits” Aren’t the Answers You Think They Are

    When I meet new clients, a big part of the initial conversation is getting a sense of what they’re looking for, their boundaries, and their desires. Two of the most common (and problematic) phrases I hear are: “I’m into everything” and “I have no limits.” You might think these responses make you seem adventurous or…

  • Service Kink: Authentic Power Exchange vs Pay-to-Play

    In my work as an adult service provider, I find two distinct types of ‘submissives’: those genuinely seeking authentic submission and those simply seeking specific kink-based services. Both are valid, but they’re fundamentally different dynamics. If you’re contacting me and immediately saying, “Hello Mistress,” without even an introduction, it tells me you’re likely looking for…

  • How to Approach an Online Sex Worker

    Simple Etiquette Rules You Should Know If you’re new to connecting with SWers—or even if you’re not—this guide will help you avoid common mistakes and start off on the right foot. Time is valuable, boundaries are essential, and respect goes a long way. Here’s how to approach an online sex worker and make a good…

  • A Matter of Size: The Truth About A Small Penis

    In a world that often glorifies size as the ultimate measure of masculinity, pleasure, and desirability, it’s time we talked openly and honestly about having a small penis. Everywhere we turn, there’s an implicit message that bigger is inherently better. But is this really true? From my experience, not at all. Let’s unpack this size…

  • My Kink Compatibility List

    The Fetishes I Offer (and the Ones I Don’t) When I first started as an adult content creator, I had no idea which kinks or niches would resonate most with my audience…. or myself. But as I connected with more clients, patterns emerged. Some fetishes clicked right away for me. Others, while popular, just didn’t…

  • Body Image: There Are Dozens Of Us! Dozens!

    Just a few years ago, I was something of a NeverNude. Outside of bathing, getting me completely naked was rare. Like many women who grew up in the 90s, my relationship with my body image was complicated. I remember very clearly when I started to dislike my body. I was 10 years old. This was…

  • I’m Penny Jade…

    As I approach the end of my second year in the adult industry, I find myself looking for new ways to put myself out there and share more of Penny Jade with the world. I always found that writing was a great creative and emotional outlet for me. In fact, most of my life I…