Let’s Talk About Scammers (And How to Keep Yourself Safe)
There’s a guy in my TikTok comments right now who’s furious. He’s been scammed. Misled. He insists that he and I have been texting and that he paid for a meet-up, to which I never showed. But here’s the thing – I don’t offer meet-ups, never have, nor have I ever spoken to this person before.
What happened? He was scammed. Someone stole my photos and videos to pretend to be me, and he fell for it. And honestly, I feel for him; scammers can be incredibly convincing. I’ve almost been taken in once or twice myself. But even after calmly explaining what really happened, this man is directing all his anger at me, instead of the person who actually took his money.
So instead of staying quiet, I want to use this moment to help you stay safe. Whether you’re curious, lonely, horny, or just looking for a little connection – scammers target good people. So let’s talk about how to spot the red flags, how to verify a creator, and why I only accept payment through verified adult platforms. Not to be difficult, but because it protects both of us.
1. Red Flags to Watch For
Scammers can be slick, but they also need to minimize the risk of being called out. Here are a couple ways you might spot them:
⚠️ DMs Open / Comments Closed
My real TikTok account has DMs turned off. So do all of my social media accounts. This is by design: I don’t chat for free, and it keeps scammers and creeps out of my inbox. However the SCAMMER account has DMs open and comments turned off. That is also by design: so they can’t be called out publicly (making ME the subject of men’s ire).
⚠️ No Website, No Links, No Presence
I link to my website from every real social profile. From there, you can find every legit platform I use. Scammers? They’ll often have no links, no traceable presence, and nothing that ties them to a real business. That’s intentional: so you’ll engage with them there, and so they can disappear as soon as they’ve gotten what they want.
Taking a minute for reflection is crucial in avoiding scams online. So before you send money, ask yourself:
Does this feel like a real creator… or a quick hustle?
2. How to Verify a Creator
You’ve found someone online who seems legit, but you still want to be sure. That’s smart. There’s one simple thing you can do to confirm they are who they say they are: ask for live verification.
Think of it like a “proof of life” check. You’re not being rude or accusatory; you’re protecting yourself. Any responsible creator will understand that.
🎥 Quick Video Call
Just a minute or two. No need for anything sexy or fancy. You just want to make sure the person you’re talking to matches the content they’re posting.
📸 Custom Photo or Video with a Unique Prompt
Ask for a selfie with your name on a sign, or a short video saying something specific. If they can’t or won’t do it, that’s a big red flag.
💸 Be Prepared to Pay for This
Asking for someone’s time and energy, even for a quick verification, can come with a small cost. Think of it as an investment in peace of mind. Better to spend a few bucks than risk losing a lot more.
🚩 If They Dodge It—Walk Away
If they ghost, avoid, or get defensive when you ask for verification? Trust your gut. That’s not someone you should trust with your money.
1. Use Legitimate Adult Platforms
This is the biggest one. If you take nothing else from this post, please remember this: Always pay through a verified adult platform.
Sites like Niteflirt, SextPanther, and IWantClips require me to verify my identity with legal documentation. That means you’re getting me, and not someone pretending to be me. It also means there’s a record of the transaction, and protections in place if something goes wrong.
Compare that to random cash apps or private DMs, where anyone can vanish the second they get your money. No support, no refunds, no accountability.
These platforms aren’t just for payments; they’re a built-in safety net for avoiding scams online. For both of us.
4. Why I Only Accept Payments Through Adult Platforms
You might think I’m just inflexible, but it’s about safety, legality, and protecting everyone involved.
✅ They Handle The Age Verification
I don’t want to deal with your ID. I don’t want it, I shouldn’t store it, and that’s not safe for either of us. Verified platforms handle this securely and legally.
✅ Chargeback & Platform Protection
Scammers exist on both sides. If someone tries to scam me with a chargeback, most cash apps side with the buyer, even if I delivered everything as promised. Some platforms (like PayPal) don’t even allow adult content. They’ve shut down sex worker accounts and seized funds. I’m not willing to take that risk. Not all adult platforms offer chargeback protection, but many do – and I personally choose to work with platforms that provide it.
✅ Privacy for Both of Us
I don’t want to share my real name, email, or banking info with strangers. And I’m guessing you don’t either. Verified platforms protect our identities and keep things professional.
✅ I’m Canadian!
The most popular U.S. payment apps literally aren’t even available here. Even if I wanted to use them, I couldn’t.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve read all the way through: thank you. I know this isn’t as fun, but this matters.
Scams are real. And they hurt people. But you’re not powerless. A little knowledge and a few smart steps can make all the difference in avoiding scams online.
So please, whether you’re trying to book with me or any other creator:
Stick to verified platforms
Watch for red flags
Ask for verification if you’re unsure
And if you ever want to connect with me, for a call, a video, a fantasy, or just a little sweet escape, you can always find my verified links right here:
👉 pennyjade.com/where-to-find-me-online
I’m not going anywhere. I just want you to be safe, feel seen, and get exactly what you’re looking for.
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